There are few milestones more important for a couple than buying a home together, and the amount research and paperwork involved can be daunting.
By Lauren Krugel, The Canadian Press
CALGARY - There are few milestones more important for a couple than buying a home together, and the amount
of research and paperwork involved can be daunting.
That's what Nicole Simone and her partner Mike Wilson are discovering as they scour Toronto's west end for the
Simone, a 25-year-old government worker, figures house hunting accounts for 90 per cent of what she and Wilson
talk about these days.
"And if you don't just keep a good sense of humour about it, you're not going to get through it," she said.
The duo was disappointed to lose a bidding war for a house in the Etobicoke area of Toronto, but the quest must
"It just wasn't meant to be, so we kind of just have to let it go and keep in mind the kinds of things we liked about
that place, and hopefully we find some things better and cheaper," Simone said.
The journey usually starts with a meeting at the bank to get a pre-approval for a mortgage, a step that Simone and
Wilson took in October.
TD Canada Trust mortgage specialist Jessy Bilodeau says the lender sifts through a client's financial history
before approving a loan so, if there are any skeletons in the closet, it's best to let them out right away.
It's best for the clients to alert the mortgage specialist of possible issues before they meet so there's no
surprises, she says.
"We can tell them what documents we're going to need, and they can bring them along with them to that first
No issues came up when Simone and Wilson had the money talk. They were aware Simone still carried a lot of
student debt, and she was "pleasantly surprised" to find out how much Wilson had in his savings account.
"We're both very comfortable with sharing our finances," said Wilson.
It's not just the mortgage payments couples have to worry about, says Bill Briggs, a Re/Max broker-owner in
"A lot of them don't understand the cash commitments that are going to be necessary," he said.
Those may include a down payment, moving expenses, insurance, utilities, condo maintenance fees and taxes.
Some repairs may be necessary as well and new owners usually want to do at least some redecorating and
Vancouver-area Re/Max realtor Lynda Terborg recommends first-time homebuyers "practice" ahead of time.
Work out how much the mortgage and other expenses are going amount to and sock it away. Then that sum can
go toward home decorating, for example, and the couple will know what to expect when they own a home for real.
"It's going to be a little more than what you're paying now renting or living at home with mom and dad," she said.
For a double-income household, normally one of those incomes goes toward housing costs alone, said Terborg.
"You can follow that formula. It's a hard one to swallow, but that's the reality."
Couples may be gung-ho about shopping for properties as soon as they've lined up their mortgage, but Re/Max
realtor Frank Rudge, based in Victoria, said it's important to have a long talk with an agent before the hunt begins.
He said he often tells clients not to rush, and also have a meeting to discuss their needs and interests.
"Let me help you make that right decision rather than 'I'm going to quickly sell you something before you go and
buy from somebody else' and before you make a snap decision," he said.
There are some things a potential homebuyer may not be aware of — like that some condo buildings have age
restrictions, and may not be worth buying if starting a family is in the cards.
Real estate agents say it's also important to keep an open mind. Sometimes what people want going in to the
process isn't what they wind up with.
Simone and Wilson, for instance, started looking at condos, but realized after a while a house may give them
more bang for their buck. They've also widened their target area, looking at parts of Etobicoke they hadn't in the
"I would argue we probably wasted a good three months on looking at condos. We've probably seen over 50
condos, and that was a whole waste of time — pretty much spending every Saturday going to see five or six
condos," said Wilson, a 26-year-old who works at an engineering firm.
Their real estate agent — a woman who is only a few years older than them — has been a huge help, he said.
"I think she really can relate to us, as we're first-time home buyers. She knows what we're looking for and our
expectations and our needs," said Wilson.
"I think being with a real estate agent that gets you is really key," added Simone. "And we lucked out."